Conversation b/w Me nd guddan

On Feb 17, 2008 2:35 AM, I wrote:

u dun worry.. i can understand.. will talk to mom.. its not that they dun trust u.. may be they wud have felt betrayal from my side.. thus they wud like to be overcautious for u.. howvever, u live and enjoy ur life but dun give them opportunities to put a finger on ur mistakes.. we may call it generation gap but yes we have to accept it.. they still can't fathom many things.. lifestyle has changed at a very fast pace in past 7-8 years.. many ppl still think that a boy and a girl can only be boyfriend and girlfriend and not just good friends.. but we know that its not so nowadays.. anyways.. u dun worry.. study well.. dun spoil that part.. it's like this, if u spoil this then all blame wud come on ur goin out nd enjoyin.. however, if u do well in tht part then it wud cover everythin.. accha wat abt ur CA registration for inter... u done with it or still not gone to ghaziabad..

On Feb 16, 2008 5:26 PM, guddan wrote:

i no bhaiya.......yesterday it ws my fault.....i m really sorry for tht...bt u cn understnd na........we were like 15 of friens together.....n everybdy ws like cm na nthin ll happen..ur dad wnt sy nythin n i jst wnt wid thm.... cudnt say no........n i dnt mind ur yellin at me bt tum thoda toh saath de sakta hain na mera, bhaiya..........mom n dad to dnt trust me only......yest. mom cald me n strtd shoutin on me n dint listen nythin.....i no it ws my fault bt mom aisa aisa baat bol deti hain ki i really feel bad as if hum kya kar diya......dey never understand me n never trust me.......mom is tellin to cm bck in march fr holidays.....i tld tht i wnt be able to study at home isi baat pe she startd scoldin ki ya ya dnt cm bck u don wnt to com bck liv in delhi only.......wht u do in delhi........whole lyf u studied here n nw u r nt able to study here......ab how to make her understand u tell............chalo nyways sorry for whtever happened ......wnt happen again..........byeee

On 2/15/08, I wrote to guddan:

hi.. sorry for shouting at u.. i know its not correct to do that.. however got pissed off from your attitude towards things.. i dun mind ur roamin abt or watchin n number of movies.. however one thing to respect is time... u had all the time in world to reach hostel in time.. however that urge to break the rules always empower everythin else.. probably just for the fun sake.. i understand that it's hard to say No when u r in a group with friends and everyone else wants u to stay back for that extra half an hour.. tht lure is simply irresistible and we think that there is nothin wrong in it since we are not doin anythin wrong.. actually thr is nothin wrong abt it.. we can have all the fun in life and yes we have the right to it.. but since we have some timeline so we better keep that in mind and work accordingly..don't u think so.. may be u will be thinking that I am prophesising and dun follow tht.. yup, might have happened sometimes.. however, i try to respect it as much as possible.. i learned to respect during my Birla days.. believe me, i dun give a damn as to how much u roam or whereever u go or with whom u go.. u r intelligent and independent enuf to take care of that.. hope u understand me and take care.. dun worry abt papa.. his line of thinkin is different.. he might be right from his perspective.. just be good to him and dun give him things to think abt..